Good influences
Saturday March 15th 2025, 10:13 pm
Filed under: Family,Friends,Knit,Knitting a Gift

Yesterday’s yarn purchases. I don’t usually buy chunky, but when you have a granddaughter whose favorite outfit is, to quote her mother, “rainbow leopard sparkle” and you find some Urth yarn like the one on the left, well there you go.

Just got back from celebrating the anniversary of old friends of ours. Their kids flew into town, we got to catch up with them all–I went to college with one of them–and I took the youngest aside and told him,

You changed everything.

I what?

I told him, I argued with that feeling that I should knit for you, going, I can’t knit for everybody who ever compliments my stuff, there’s only one of me and there would be no end of it, I mean, c’mon!

The feeling was so insistent (and he knew the end of that story. It was a vest. A Kaffe Fassett vest, with him at 15 picking out all the colors for it in disbelief as I egged him on to choose more because I knew he wanted to) and his reaction had been so intensely grateful that I’d wanted to be a part of that again. I wanted to knit for other people again. You did that, I said. I’d kept a running list for awhile of the people I had knit for after that and at 182 went, That’s not what it’s about–ditch this. And that had been about 20 years ago.

I thanked him again for changing my life.

His foster/adoptive parents were celebrating their 70th anniversary. Good folks.


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It is so neat that you can point to that moment, that turning point! I bet he was thrilled.

Comment by ccr in MA 03.16.25 @ 10:32 am

Wow! So cool you could tell him that in person. My math brain wants to consider an estimate of your total generosity, but I can only say thank you, very much. And have fun creating with that totally rainbow leopard sparkle!

Comment by DebbieR 03.16.25 @ 6:43 pm



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