He liked it, and I told him a woman in Ukraine had made it for me. In Kherson.
He took a deep breath at that one. Then a quiet, “Wow.”
She had sent me pictures of her apartment, I added, nodding, and had declared, We will repel the invaders. We will rebuild.
We quickly got on with what was supposed to be the point of the appointment, tests, lupus, meds, etc.
But as it was time to leave, he suddenly stopped and turned back to me. He’d clearly been thinking about it because he said, “Please give her all my best.”
He paused a moment, then added with maybe more emotion than he’d intended, “Please tell her we’re all with her.” He wanted so much to convey that. I promised him I would.
And I remembered the time he had had to cancel an appointment with me to fly to his elderly widowed mom in Hong Kong when she had been ill. He had never outright said it but I knew that that was while the mainland authorities were violently putting down large pro-democracy protests. But his mom needed him. He came. Her whole country…
Please tell her we’re all with her.
That I did, and why it was especially meaningful to me to hear it coming from him.